These quizzes reveal how you attach, ask, protect, and connect. Built for people who want healthier relationships and clearer self-understanding.
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Each quiz maps a different layer of how you operate in relationships. Your relational needs, your nervous system patterns, who you attract, and how you ask for what you want. This is not therapy. It is pattern education, so you can see what is running and choose what to do with it.
These services are for people who want direct, practical clarity in relationships. No jargon. No shame. Just clean translation and a plan you can use.
Bring the texts, the argument, or the confusing moment. I translate the subtext into clear needs, triggers, and asks so you can respond without guesswork.
Read the full guide →A joint session to map both patterns and the feedback loop between you. The goal is a shared map, cleaner repairs, and fewer repeat fights.
Read the full guide →A solo read of your relational pattern, attraction map, and nervous system response. This is for people who want a clear focus and a clean next step.
Read the full guide →Discover your top relational needs and how you ask for them when activated. You can have a real need and still ask sideways. This shows you both.
How does your body respond to stress? Fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or faint. Find your primary pattern.
When peace shows up, what does your system do? Test, create chaos, freeze, or vanish?
How does your ego protect you? Grandiose, collapsed, compensatory, or oscillating between them.
Do you people-please to stay safe? Map how deep the fawn pattern runs and what triggers it.
Who are you wired to attract and why? Unavailable, charmer, authority, fixer, chaos, or equal match.
Is it ego, trauma, or stress? Distinguish what you are actually dealing with in your patterns.
What makes you shut down in relationships? Map your triggers and the order they activate.
How do you protect yourself in connection? Walls, masks, tests, or distance. See your strategy.
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If you are in survival mode, fighting wars in your nervous system, or dealing with complex trauma patterns, the War Path quizzes go deeper.
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