Specialized Support · Unscarred

Support that speaks
your nervous system's language.

Pattern-specific coaches, relationship translation, deep tracking sessions, and membership tiers built for the way your mind actually works.

Specialists & peer support

A real person when you need one

Specialty support for NPD, BPD, and ADHD patterns, plus a grounding membership for psychosis and schizophrenia-lived experience when episodes hit.

NPD-Informed

Narcissistic Pattern Support

"You're not a monster. You're wired for protection."

  • Ego regulation without shame
  • Supply-free self-worth building
  • Accountability without attack
  • Relationship repair scripts
  • Grandiosity-to-groundedness work
  • Partner impact awareness

Starting at $67 / session

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BPD-Informed

Borderline Pattern Support

"Your emotions aren't too much. They just need a translator."

  • Splitting awareness & interrupts
  • Abandonment alarm regulation
  • Idealization-devaluation mapping
  • Favorite person detox
  • Identity stabilization
  • Before-you-text-them support

Starting at $67 / session

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ADHD-Informed

ADHD Pattern Support

"Your brain isn't broken. It needs a different operating system."

  • Body doubling sessions
  • Task initiation support
  • Rejection sensitivity support
  • Accountability check-ins
  • Hyperfocus management
  • Relationship time-blindness help

Starting at $57 / session

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Peer Support

Grounding Support Membership

"You don't have to come back from an episode alone."

  • Real-time grounding together when episodes start
  • One consistent person, not a rotating hotline
  • Text check-ins and post-episode debriefs
  • Built for psychosis & schizophrenia-lived experience
  • Not clinical care: peer support alongside your team
  • Limited spots by design

$75 / month · Payhip

Not sure which support fits? Take our Which Support Quiz or book a free 15-minute consult.

Strategy & Translation

Sometimes you both mean well. You just speak different emotional languages.

Translation sessions help you understand each other before the cycle repeats.

Relationship Translation

When words keep missing each other

A translation session puts a pattern-aware lens between two people who are stuck. You leave with shared language and scripts that actually land.

Couples Translation

For partners stuck in cycles of misunderstanding. I help you see each other's patterns and create scripts that actually land.

$97 / 90 MIN
Book Couples Session

Parent-Child Translation

For parents and adult children navigating generational patterns. Break the cycle without breaking the relationship.

$87 / 90 MIN
Book Family Session

Sibling Translation

For siblings with different family roles: scapegoat and golden child, the fixer and the one who left. Finally understand why you see it so differently.

$87 / 90 MIN
Book Sibling Session

Any Relationship Translation

Friends, business partners, roommates, exes co-parenting. Any two people who need a pattern-aware translator in the room.

$87 / 90 MIN
Book Translation

How Translation Sessions Work

Both parties join the call. I help identify each person's patterns, translate what they're actually trying to say, and create a shared vocabulary for future conflicts. You leave with scripts and a plan.

Deep Pattern Work

The patterns don't live in the relationship. They live in you.

What you bring in, you'll bring to the next one, until you map it.

Deep Pattern Work

See your patterns before they run you.

A focused intensive that maps your triggers, automatic responses, and the stories your nervous system tells.

Deep Pattern Work

Pattern Tracking Session

Map what's running you.

A focused deep-dive where we map your specific triggers, automatic responses, and the stories your nervous system tells. You leave with a visual map of your patterns and specific interrupt strategies.

  • 90-minute intensive session
  • Pattern mapping document you keep
  • Trigger identification & ranking
  • Customized interrupt scripts
  • Nervous system state chart
  • Follow-up check-in included
$127
One-time · 90 min + follow-up
Book Pattern Tracking

Includes pattern map document
& 30-min follow-up call

Body-Level Healing

Healing happens in the body before it shows up in the mind.

Regulation isn't a technique. It's the foundation everything else gets built on.

Ongoing Support

Membership Tiers

Five ways to get support, from direct 1:1 text access to library-only plans.

Core: Texting + Library

$45 / mo
Text-first support

Texting access plus library access, without calls or courses.

  • 1:1 Telegram with direct access
  • No calls on this tier
  • Library access included
  • Courses not included
Join Core

Light: Telegram Only

$35 / mo
Telegram only

Message @scarkade. No calls and no library.

  • Telegram access only
  • No calls
  • No library access
  • Upgrade anytime
Join Light

Library Membership

$30 / mo
Timed-drop curriculum

Workbooks, scripts, tools, and deep dives. No 1:1 access. Programs sold separately.

  • All workbooks & scripts
  • Framework deep dives
  • Weekly drops
  • No direct access
Join Library

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Getting Started

How it works

01

Choose your service

Pick the support type, translation session, or membership tier that fits your situation.

02

Book or subscribe

Select a time for sessions, or start your membership tier immediately.

03

Complete intake

Quick form so we can hit the ground running with your specific patterns.

04

Start the work

Get support, scripts, and pattern interrupts when you need them.

Not sure where to start?

Book a free 15-minute consultation and I'll help you figure out which service fits your situation best.