💛 Couple Repair

Repair work is a two person job.

I don't fix relationships where only one person shows up. If you want couple repair, I need both people. Period.

If both people are not in, we are not doing repair.

Couple repair only works when both people participate. If your partner is not willing, that tells you something important - and there's still work you can do. But it's not couple repair.

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Workbook + Session Bundle

Self-paced workbook + live session. Complete repair package.

Work through the Couple Repair Workbook together first, then bring your patterns to a 90-minute live session where I translate what you're both actually trying to say. Save $17.

Get Bundle - $117
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Live Session Only

Both attend. Real-time pattern translation. Repair steps.

You both join the call. I help you see each other's patterns, translate what you're actually trying to say, and give you a shared vocabulary for future conflicts.

Book Session - $97

Want to start with the workbook only?

Get the Couple Repair Workbook - $37
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Not Both In Yet?

Stabilize. Get clarity. Influence from a grounded place.

If your partner isn't willing yet, you can still get clear on your patterns, stabilize your nervous system, and learn how to invite them in without begging or demanding.

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✓ Couple Repair is for

  • Both people willing to attend
  • Both people willing to hear feedback
  • Both people willing to practice a repair step
  • Partners stuck in loops of misunderstanding
  • Couples who mean well but keep missing each other

✕ Couple Repair is not for

  • Convincing a partner to care
  • Diagnosing someone as the villain
  • One person doing all the emotional labor
  • Validating one side against the other
  • Fixing someone who doesn't want to change

The "Bring Them With You" Script

Not sure how to ask your partner? Use this:

I'm not trying to argue or prove you wrong. I want us to get help from someone who can translate what we keep missing. I'm booking a couple repair session. I need you there with me. Are you willing to come with me on [date and time we pick]?

If they're not ready yet

I won't pretend to do couple repair when only one person shows up. But that doesn't mean you're stuck. Here's what you can do solo:

  • Identify the pattern and the stuck loop
  • Clarify the one move that reduces harm
  • Create a clean invite script to bring them in
  • Set a boundary plan if they refuse
Book Pattern Clarity Call

$47 · 60 minutes · Solo session