🛡️ Boundaries & Safety

Clear boundaries make clear work possible.

This page exists so we both know what we're getting into. Read it before you book.

✓ I can help you if...

  • You're ready to look at your own patterns, not just blame someone else
  • You're functional day-to-day but stuck in relational loops
  • You want clarity on what's happening in your relationships
  • You're willing to hear honest feedback, even if it's uncomfortable
  • You're dealing with attachment issues, communication breakdowns, or repeated patterns
  • You want practical tools and scripts, not just insight
  • You're recovering from a difficult relationship and need to understand what happened

✕ I cannot help you if...

  • You're in active crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself or others
  • You need a diagnosis or treatment for a mental health condition
  • You want me to confirm that you're 100% right and the other person is 100% wrong
  • You're looking for someone to process deep trauma wounds (that's therapy, not coaching)
  • You want couple repair but your partner won't participate
  • You're not willing to take any responsibility for your part

This is...

  • Pattern coaching and education
  • Nervous system skill building
  • Relational translation and clarity
  • Practical scripts and repair moves
  • Accountability with compassion

This is not...

  • Therapy or clinical treatment
  • Crisis intervention
  • Medical or psychiatric advice
  • A diagnosis
  • A substitute for professional mental health care

⚠️ If You're in Crisis

If you're having thoughts of suicide, self-harm, or harming someone else, please contact a crisis line immediately. I am not a crisis service and cannot provide emergency support.

What to expect from me

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Honest reads

I'll tell you what I see, even if it's uncomfortable. Kindly, but clearly.

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Practical tools

Scripts, moves, and skills you can use immediately - not just insight.

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Both sides seen

I won't villainize your person. Patterns are co-created. I help you see yours.

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Bounded care

I care about your wellbeing, and I hold professional boundaries. Both are true.

Legal Disclaimer: Unscarred provides pattern coaching and educational content, not therapy, medical advice, or clinical treatment. Nothing on this site should be interpreted as a diagnosis. Engaging with quizzes, calls, or programs does not create a therapist-client relationship.

By booking a session or purchasing a program, you acknowledge that you understand these boundaries. If you require clinical mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area.

Your patterns are not your fault. Learning them is your power. But doing this work is your responsibility.