What are you really fighting for when love gets hard?
Most of us aren't fighting about the dishes. Underneath, you're fighting one old fear: being left, being seen, being trapped, or being erased. This quiz, 18 questions, shows you which one runs you in close relationships, and the face you put on to protect it. It's honest, not cute, and not a soft attachment-style quiz.
One thing to know first: this is a snapshot, not a verdict. How safe or shaky you feel right now will shape your answers. Take it when you're as steady as you get, then come back in a few months. What changes between now and then will tell you as much as the result itself.