Relational Services

Couple Pattern Reading

A joint session to map both patterns and the loop between you. The goal is a shared map, cleaner repairs, and fewer repeat fights.

How it works

Both partners name triggers, default defenses, and needs.
We map the loop: activation, misread, escalation, repair fail.
We choose one or two measurable changes to test for two weeks.

What you leave with

A shared vocabulary for the cycle and how to interrupt it.
Repair scripts for the exact moments you keep getting stuck.
A short experiment plan and check in structure.

Good fit if

You keep having the same fight with different words.
You love each other but cannot land a repair.
You want a clean map instead of blame.

This is pattern education, not therapy. It is designed to reduce confusion and increase repair.

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