Unscarred Mirror

Are They Hurting You On Purpose

This is not a diagnosis. It is a pattern scan. It separates accident, avoidance, overwhelm, selfishness, and intentional harm by looking at repair, accountability, and repeat behavior.

What you get

Primary harm pattern
Intent signal level
Repair capacity
Next boundary
Script to test reality
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Answer based on: what happens after you bring it up. The repair tells the truth.

Scale

Never = 0
Sometimes = 1
Often = 2
Almost always = 3

If you are currently unsafe, skip quizzes and prioritize support and safety.

Not sure? answer based on the last 3 times you addressed the issue.

Your results

Result

What is happening

What to watch

Boundary

Test script

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Nervous system scan

Note: This scan is about patterns. Your lived experience matters more than any score.