๐Ÿ’ฌ Text Support

Someone who gets it.
In your phone.
When you need them.

Not therapy. Not a chatbot. Just a real person who knows your patterns - ready to help before you spiral.

I'm about to send a really unhinged text
Screenshot it. Send to me first. Do not send to him.
[screenshot]
Okay that's your flooded mirror talking. What do you actually need right now?

You know that moment when you're activatedheart racing, fingers hovering over the keyboard, about to do the thing you always regret?

You know it's your pattern. You know you'll feel stupid later. But in the moment, you can't stop yourself.

What if you had someone to text first?

Someone who knows your specific pattern. Who can say "that's your abandonment alarm, not reality" before you blow everything up. Who can help you write the text that doesn't destroy trust.

Not a therapist scheduling you for next Thursday. Someone in your pocket right now.

This is for you if...

ADHD BPD NPD Trauma Response Anxious Attachment
  • You've texted things you regret when activated and need someone to intercept
  • You know your patterns intellectually but can't stop them in real-time
  • Your friends are tired of being your crisis line (fair)
  • Therapy once a week isn't cutting it for the stuff that happens at 11pm
  • You need someone who speaks your specific nervous system language
  • You're done spiraling alone

This isn't therapy. It's backup.

Not this

  • Clinical language
  • Scheduled "sessions"
  • "How does that make you feel?"
  • Professional distance
  • 24/7 crisis hotline
  • A replacement for therapy

This is

  • "That's your exposure alarm, not reality"
  • Real-time pattern interrupts
  • "Don't send that. Try this instead."
  • Someone who's been in the impact zone
  • Support during reasonable hours
  • A friend who happens to see patterns

I speak your nervous system's language

โšก ADHD Support

Your brain isn't broken. You just need a different operating system.

  • Task initiation nudges when you're stuck
  • Body doubling via text (yes, it works)
  • RSD first aid when rejection hits hard
  • Time-blindness reality checks
  • "Just start" accountability pings
  • Dopamine-friendly check-ins
  • Hyperfocus interrupts when needed
  • Non-shaming accountability

๐Ÿ’œ BPD Support

Your emotions aren't too much. They just need a translator.

  • Splitting awareness in real-time
  • Before-you-text-them interception
  • Abandonment alarm reality checks
  • FP (favorite person) detox support
  • Idealization/devaluation mapping
  • Emotional flooding protocols
  • Identity anchoring when you feel lost
  • Script rewrites before you send

๐Ÿ”ฅ NPD Support

You're not a monster. You're wired for protection.

  • Ego regulation without shame
  • Accountability without attack
  • Supply-free self-worth check-ins
  • Impact awareness (gentle version)
  • Grandiosity-to-groundedness support
  • Relationship repair scripting
  • Collapse prevention
  • Real talk, no judgment

Real conversations, not scripts

When you're about to spiral
He hasn't texted back in 4 hours. I know he's done.
Is that real or is that your abandonment alarm?
...probably the alarm
What's one actual fact about the situation?
He said he had a busy day at work
Okay. So we have: busy day (fact) vs. he's leaving (alarm). Which one has evidence?
When you need a script
I need to tell her that hurt me but I don't know how without sounding dramatic
Try: "When you said X, I felt Y. I'm not blaming you, I just need you to know it landed hard."
That's so much simpler than what I had
Your first draft was probably 3 paragraphs of over-explaining. This is what you actually mean.
When you did the thing
I sent the unhinged text. He hasn't responded.
Okay. What's done is done. What do you need right now?
To not send 5 more
Put the phone in another room. Set a timer for 2 hours. We'll regroup after. You survived. That's the update.
ADHD task paralysis
I have to do this thing and I've been staring at it for 2 hours
What's the smallest possible first step? Like embarrassingly small.
Open the document
Do that. Just that. Text me when it's open.
...okay it's open
Good. Now type one sentence. Any sentence. It can be bad.

Packages that fit where you are

๐Ÿ”ฅ Crisis Week

"I'm in it right now and I need backup"

7 days unlimited texting โ€ข Response within 2-4 hours โ€ข Pattern interrupts โ€ข Real-time scripts

$27
one-time / 7 days
Get Started

๐Ÿ“ Pattern Interrupt

"Help me catch myself before I do the thing"

14 days โ€ข Daily check-ins โ€ข Pattern tracking โ€ข Weekly report โ€ข 3 voice memos

$47
one-time / 14 days
Get Started

โญ VIP Intensive

"I'm going through something major"

Everything in Best Friend + 2x monthly calls โ€ข Priority response โ€ข Custom protocol โ€ข Extended hours

$197
per month
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๐Ÿ’œ

Best Friend Mode

$127/mo
or try it for $37/week

The friend who's been through it, sees your patterns, and is in your phone every single day. No clinical distance. No scheduling. Just someone who actually gets it.

  • Daily check-in: "What's the vibe today?"
  • Text anytime you're activated
  • Pattern callouts in real-time
  • "What should I text them?" support
  • Hype when you need it, reality checks when you're spiraling
  • Voice memos both ways
  • Weekly recap of patterns and wins
Try 1 Week for $37

No commitment. See if it fits.

What you're probably wondering

What are your response hours?
I respond between 9am-8pm in my timezone. After-hours messages get answered first thing in the morning. This isn't a crisis line - it's sustainable support.
Is this therapy?
No. I'm not a licensed therapist and this isn't a replacement for therapy. It's pattern support - someone who knows your nervous system patterns and can help you interrupt them in real-time. If you need clinical support, I'll tell you.
What if I'm in crisis?
I'm not equipped for crisis intervention. If you're in danger or having thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a crisis line (988 in the US). I'm here for pattern support, not emergencies.
How is this different from just texting a friend?
Your friends love you but they can't see your patterns objectively. I can say "that's your abandonment alarm" without getting pulled into the drama. And I won't get exhausted by your spirals - it's literally what I'm here for.
Do I need a diagnosis?
No. If you recognize yourself in the patterns I describe (the spiraling, the before-you-text-them moments, the task paralysis), this can help whether or not you have formal diagnoses. Many people are undiagnosed or self-diagnosed.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. Monthly subscriptions can be cancelled before your next billing date. No questions, no guilt trips.
What if it's not for me?
Try a one-week trial first. $27-37 depending on the tier. If it doesn't land, you know before you commit to more.

Stop spiraling alone.

The next time you're activated, you'll have someone to text first. Someone who sees what you can't see when you're in it.