Coaching Program

Centered
and Irresistible.

You did the course. You understand the patterns. Now this is where the understanding becomes the way you actually move, through relationships, through rooms, through your life.

Confidence without cockiness. Boundaries without aggression. Wanting more without ever looking like you need it.

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What changes

The course taught you the map.
This is the territory.

Centered Man and Centered Woman give you the framework. Centered and Irresistible is where you build it into your nervous system, how you hold yourself, how you enter conversations, how you respond when someone tests you, and what it actually feels like to want something without chasing it.

Before this work

  • You understand your patterns but still react from them
  • You know what you deserve but don't quite believe it yet
  • You set boundaries but feel guilty or keep explaining them
  • You want things but hide it so you don't look desperate
  • You're attractive but something keeps people at arm's length
  • Your confidence depends on how things are going
  • You're still shrinking in certain rooms

After this work

  • You respond from choice instead of pattern
  • You hold your standards without needing to defend them
  • Your boundaries are calm, clear, and non-negotiable
  • You want what you want openly, and people feel it
  • You pull people in by being fully yourself
  • Your confidence is structural, not conditional
  • You take up the space you're supposed to

"Not louder. Not harder. Just more you than you've ever let yourself be."

The work

Six sessions.
Real work.

Each session builds on the last. We don't do generic advice. We work with your actual patterns, your actual relationships, and the specific ways you hold yourself back.

01

Pattern audit

We go through your history and name exactly what's been running, the specific patterns that have cost you the most. Not to shame them. To understand them so completely they can't run you anymore.

02

Your standard, made real

What you actually want, not what you've settled for, not what you think you're allowed to want. We clarify it so clearly that you stop negotiating against yourself before anyone else even gets the chance.

03

Presence and pull

How you enter a room, a conversation, a relationship. The difference between performing confidence and inhabiting it. We work on the specific ways you shrink, and what it feels like to stop.

04

The boundary that doesn't beg

Boundaries that don't need five sentences and an apology. The kind that come from a place so settled people don't argue with them. We practice yours until they're clean.

05

Desire without desperation

How to want things fully, from people, from life, from yourself, without the wanting making you anxious or making you chase. This is the session most people say changes everything.

06

Integration and what's next

Where you are now, what's changed, and what to do with it. We close the container and you leave with a clear sense of what comes next, not as a student, but as someone who's living it.

Also included

What you get between sessions.

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Centered Man or Centered Woman course

If you haven't done it yet, it's included. If you have, you revisit it now with fresh eyes. The course is the foundation this coaching builds on.

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Text support between sessions

Real-time access for the moments that don't wait for a session. When something comes up, a conversation, a situation, a moment where you feel the old pattern pulling, you have somewhere to go.

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Pattern reading and written feedback

After each session, I send you a written note, what I observed, what you might not have noticed, and one thing to focus on before we meet again.

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Sliding scale availability

I keep a small number of reduced-rate spots. This is not charity, it's priority access for people who are doing real work and have a real barrier. Reach out before you decide it's out of reach.

Who this is for

This is for people who've already done some of the work, who know what their patterns are and are ready to stop watching them happen. It's for both men and women. The centered work applies either way; the coaching goes where you need it to go.

You're ready if

You've done Centered Man or Centered Woman (or both). You understand your patterns intellectually. You're tired of knowing and not yet living it. You want someone to hold you to the version of yourself you can see.

This isn't for you if

You haven't started the foundational work yet. You're looking for someone to fix you from the outside. You're not ready to be honest about what's actually going on. Start with the course first, this will still be here.

Investment

What this costs.

Limited spots. I work with a small number of people at a time so the work stays real. If spots are full, you'll be added to a waitlist.

Full program

Centered and Irresistible

The course becomes your life.

$897 or 3×$299

Payment plan available · sliding scale by request

  • 6 private coaching sessions (60 min each)
  • Centered Man or Centered Woman course included
  • Text support access for the duration of the program
  • Written pattern feedback after every session
  • One consistent coach, not a team, not a system
  • Work that goes where you need it to go
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Already done Centered Man or Woman? Let me know, the course won't be double-charged.

Sliding scale available. Reach out before you decide it's out of reach.

Questions

Honest answers.

Do I have to have done the course first?
Yes, or you do it as part of this program. Centered and Irresistible is a coaching upgrade from Centered Man or Centered Woman. It's designed for people who have the foundation. If you haven't done the course, it's included in this program and we'll work through it together before the coaching sessions begin.
Is this for men or women?
Both. The Centered Man and Centered Woman courses are gender-specific because the patterns, the language, and the context differ. But Centered and Irresistible coaching goes where you need it to go regardless of gender. The work is the same: building a version of yourself that isn't conditional on external approval.
How does the payment plan work?
Three payments of $299, billed monthly. The first payment is due at the start. Sessions begin after the first payment. If you stop paying, sessions pause, but I'd rather work something out than lose you from the process. Just talk to me.
What does "sliding scale" actually mean?
It means if cost is a genuine barrier, not "I'd rather spend less," but a real financial constraint, reach out before you decide you can't do this. I keep a small number of reduced-rate spots and I don't make you prove anything. You just tell me where you're at and we figure it out.
How long does the program take?
Six sessions at roughly one per week is 6–8 weeks. Some people space them every two weeks to give more time to integrate between sessions. We pace it based on what you need.
What if I'm already in a different coaching package?
Reach out. We'll look at what makes sense for you. Sometimes people move into Centered and Irresistible as a natural next step from another package, we can structure that in a way that makes sense.

Ready

Stop knowing it.
Start living it.

You've done enough work to know what's possible. This is the bridge between knowing and being. Limited spots. If you're ready, apply now.

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